Many people have a general perception that a man should always be the one initiating sex and seducing the woman. While some may enjoy doing it, getting him in the mood will make a difference in your lovemaking, and you never know what other skills you might learn when arousing him.
It even gets sexier when you spice things up in your bedroom with more than just the routine sex schedule you’re both used to. According to information published on EWSingles, this may be as simple as buying a piece of sex furniture to more rough ideas such as primal fetishes.
Pleasing him in bed is vital to keep you connected. He may not be transparent about what he craves for as it’s often a tricky discussion to hold, but here are a few tips to get him all hard and satisfied.
Try Different Sex Positions
Ditch the missionary style you’re accustomed to and try new positions. You may never know what pleases him most until you try it.
Different men prefer different styles. He may like the doggy position more, or he loves when you take control and ride him hard. The easiest way to find out what he likes is by asking him. Let him know you want him to enjoy the sex, and he might open up to you on which style makes him go wild.
Roleplay
Your man has fantasies he’s always wanted to experiment on. It may be a headteacher/school girl or even a one night stand from the bar. Try roleplaying in different situations.
Seeing you different- his wife then a barmaid or a schoolgirl- will arouse his imaginations and lead on to a heated moment of sex.
Change Locations
Don’t always bang on your bed. Keep him guessing on where your next sex scene will be staged. There are many places that you can have sex. Consider:
- Kitchen top
- In the shower
- In the car
- In the woods
Take your time to learn about his sexual preferences and places he’s always fantasized about having sex to bring him more pleasure-he might even return the gesture!
Incorporate Sex Toys and Sex Dolls
If you think sex toys are only for when you’re alone, you’re wrong. There are dozens of sex toys and dolls out there for the both of you. Bring these with you next time you’re banging and experience the feeling.
Better still, let him watch you as you pleasure yourself with that vibrator and moan from clitoral stimulation.
Initiate the sex
Men have been found to initiate sex more frequently than women. However, they also love to be seduced. It makes them feel more desired and ease the pressure of having to initiate the sex themselves.
Come up with ways to make him hard and want you. You might end up pleasing him, and chances are you will end up having more sex. Try tricks such as:
- Stripping and walking naked
- Lap dancing for him
- Let him walk in on you pleasuring yourself
- Touch him playfully on his erogenous spots
- Stimulate His Prostate
The prostate in a man gives him great pleasure when stimulated. You may, therefore, want to play around with his prostate to satisfy him sexually. It’s accessible through his anus, a reason why many people don’t want to experiment with it.
However, you can also access it through his perineum- the space between the penis and anus. Prostate play gives a different kind of orgasm and sometimes, even multiple!
Talk Dirty
There are plenty of dirty talks and sexy things you can tell him in bed that may make him more aroused and harder for longer. Try whispering sexy words into his ears as it sounds sexier.
Touch Unexpected Places
He may have erogenous places that go unnoticed during your lovemaking. These spots are stimulating when touched or kissed. You can touch his inner thighs, torso, or even behind the knees.
Your mouth might even do a better job of pleasing him. Touch his earlobes with your lips or lay wet kisses along his spine and ribs, and he’ll be left asking for more.
Conclusion
Satisfying your man doesn’t have to be a hard job. A trick or two here and there will leave him satisfied and looking forward to lovemaking every time.
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